Simplify Your Finances by Being Realistic with Your Budget

by Mandi on March 24, 2011

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This week we’re talking about simplifying family life. Tune in all week for strategies and tips for every area of life, and if you’re looking for more in-depth resources, be sure to check out the Huge Simplify Family Life eBook Sale!

Earlier this week, we talked about how paying off debt simplifies your life, but is that enough?

For most of us, it’s not.

Having a budget is an important part of simplifying your finances because it lays out a clear framework for where your money should go. Not only does this ensure that all of the important things are taken care of — bills, savings, retirement — but it actually leaves more money for the fun things as well.

Stay with me for a second, and I’ll show you how with a personal example.

With a fluctuating income, it’s hard for us to budget, and I’ll admit that we don’t always do it well. Then, we get $xxx in income, and we feel like we’re living the good life. Slowly, leaks begin to spring up in our budget. We stop for Starbucks and get the girls cake pops while we’re there. Then, we remember a few things that haven’t made it onto our weekly grocery list, so we buy those. A few dollars here, a few dollars there, and suddenly we’ve spent $150 on…what exactly? Who knows.

If we’d had a stricter budget in place, we could have taken that $150 and split it between us for “fun money”. $75 each can go pretty far if you’re careful, and I can guarantee we would have made different decisions with it if it was coming out of our individual pots.

If you’re living paycheck to paycheck, this principle rings even truer. $150 of leaks over the month may mean that you can’t pay the electric bill, which means you then have to start juggling things to get that paid out of the following month’s income. Stressful, right?

Having a realistic written budget helps you avoid this stress because you can clearly designate where money should go each month. Tsh from Simple Mom recommends a zero-based budget, where even your “extra” money is assigned to a category, and each of these systems works on that same principle:

Envelope Budget

An envelope budget involves literally taking your money and dividing it into envelopes. You’re a lot less likely to spend mindlessly when you see the cash in your hand and know exactly what you’re sacrificing in order to make an impulse purchase. A cash-based system may seem outdated, but the psychological impact of handling cash instead of a plastic card can make a big difference in curbing your spending.

Bulletin Board Budget

If you’re a visual person but envelope budgeting isn’t right for you, try this bulletin board budget that Tacy shared last year. Basically, you create a bulletin board with each of your spending categories on it and then you show what has been spent and what is due during the month. Seeing these numbers right in front of you makes them much more tangible, so that it’s harder to ignore leaks and easier to be realistic about how much money there really is.

Budget Software

Using budget software can also be helpful for creating a budget because you can quickly make changes, adjust numbers and track your spending. We use Mint.com for our budget, but Pear Budget and You Need a Budget are good options as well. Read more about the pros and cons of each here.

So often we think of budgets as complicated and restricting, but what a budget really does is simplify your finances and give you freedom from the stress and worry of managing your money.

Do you use a written budget? Is it realistic, or do you find yourself trying to do more with your money is realistic?

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  • http://profiles.google.com/sweetthreephotography Aaron Greenwood

    I use a written budget & have a firm policy of sitting down every two weeks on payday & paying every bill possible for the next two weeks. That way there is never a worry. & if there is something larger that cant be paid, I immediately take steps to set up arrangements for it. As we all know that happens from time to time with dental or medical bills.

    I run a small business & aside from the initial investment sank into it 3 years ago, we also are firm that NO personal or family funds are to be spent on it.
    So far, its working & well. I am proud of that.

    I learned some VERY hard lessons early on about money, debt, etc. & its really instilled in me some good habits & qualities now. I also am working well with my husband about it. Its a joint effort. & our kids are learning about money, budgeting & values, as well.

  • Janelle

    I am on a monthly budget. I do that because my husband gets paid once a month on the 15. So what I do is write down all the bills that need to get paid within the next 30 days and, if extra ones pop up I try to pay those too. That way I feel such a freedom and I don’t spend the money where it shouldn’t be spent. I even go as far as putting in savings and tythes into my budget. I notice when I give to God what is his, he will multiply the ability for the money to go farther. In which case I feel truly blessed when I am obedient to God and do things his way.

    I am also teaching my kids when it comes to giving to the Lord. My 8 year old son is such a cheerful giver. I am so proud of him. My daughter is 2 and she as well loves to give and I find that so much more rewarding than anything.

  • Michelle

    My husband and I always have good intentions of making a budget, be we yet to complete one. I am thinking of trying the bulletin style one, that might work well for us. Thanks for sharing!

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  • Debbie

    I think I need to remember to stop and just play with my kids when they ask and stop more often to enjoy the moments with them rather than “waiting until later”. Also to actually schedule in some play/fun time with them during my day rather than feeling interrupted when they ask.

    • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

      Hi Debbie,
      Scheduling it in is a great idea! It may seem a little tedious or over the top to some but I think it’s great. Too often we get busy doing other stuff that fun takes a back seat. Good for you for making it happen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=601066988 Cate Brickell

    we’re starting family games nights again, in fact, this wednesday is our first in almost three years! (and we’ll have a mini family meeting while eating dinner)

    • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

      That’s a great idea. We used to play a lot of board games as well and it’s probably been just as long for us since we’ve played. Have fun!

  • Joelyn

    We’re turning our tiny backyard into an outdoor haven for summer…looking forward to vegetable gardening, flowers blooming, and hosting Bar-B-Ques!

    • Sherri

      ME TOO! Awesome idea … I can’t wait for summer! :)

  • Pam

    to be a “yes” mom – to say yes to making a mess in the kitchen, playing a game, being silly.

  • ronda

    I don’t know what we would do without music in our house. Nothing formal–more like raucous. Not so much Partridge Family–more like Rolling Stones, but with a four year old twist. We have our share of stress–young children, one with multiple disabilities (who is more of a dancer than a singer in this scenario), a lot on our plate, medically speaking, the winters are hard up here, and my H has a ridiculously long commute, etc… but then there’s the after dinner music. We sing almost every night.

  • Merri

    We have a cottage “up north” where we go every summer, but this year, our 3 1/2 year old will be learning to swim at the lake and we’ll be going camping more on the weekends that we’re not taking the long trek north.

  • Anonymous

    We’re trying to get get back to basics in our house as well…good old fashioned fun such as games, singing, reading aloud and acting out plays. Turn off the technology for a while and just tune into the kids!

  • Anonymous

    I like how you talk about consistently. I think that this is the key to change. Rather than one single large act, change comes after small honest consistent acts. When they are all added up, the change is there. Yoga is a great example of this. Improvements are not made one class to the next, but a steady and dependable daily effort goes a long way in the end. Nice post

  • esmie

    Loved the article. Simple and straight up. Great motivation, thanks!

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  • Bernice

    There are many times when I feel stuck. Most of my posts are inspired by photos I take, whether it’s of my boys, a new projects, or a family trip. When I’m stuck I scroll through my photos again and sometimes I find a story that I may have missed or dismissed the first time around.

    • http://twitter.com/james_brooks James Brooks

      Hey Bernice! I LOVE that! Sounds awesome and extremely inspiring – I might have to try that out myself – thanks!

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Oh geocaching is something my husband really wants to do. He’s currently saving up for a GPS so we go out with the kiddos on the weekend, camp and geocache. :)

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Hi Kate!
    Fantastic I love this. It seems so simple but unless you make the conscious effort sadly, it doesn’t happen too often.

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Hi Krissa,
    That’s a great idea. Fun needs to be planned, I think!

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Hi Judy,
    Good for you guys! Living in the moment and not getting bogged down by what you don’t have is a great way to feel happier and make way for more fun. It’s the little things each day that build memories and make life richer.

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Hi Melissa,
    My husband and I love camping but haven’t done it in the past three years that we’ve had kids. We’ve decided that this summer will be different and we’re going to take our 2 and 3 year old son and two labs camping. Call us crazy but we’re going to give it a shot (at least once) :)

  • http://zenfamilyhabits.net Sherri

    Hi Catharine,
    I’m sorry to hear about everything you guys have going on in your lives at the moment. It can really weigh you down but focusing on a couple of afternoons a week just to have fun and take a break from everything is a great idea. I wish you guys well.

  • http://twitter.com/james_brooks James Brooks

    Hey Alison. In that case, why not start of by blogging at a slower pace. Take more time over your posts and perhaps only post once a week. The key is constancy, even if that is at a slower rate! Try it! If you do start again – let us know – would love to see what you are putting out there. 

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